How to not be so sensitive (read details please!!!)?

i am so sensitive and there nothing wrong with that i just dont want to start crying when someone call s me a b*tch or something when someone say like "who the hell you think you talking 2" for me my heart starts beating and i feel like i am going to cry and it bothers me and that worst thing is i no they dont mean it and i think about that when they say it and words are words but i still start 2 cry cant i like hypnotize myself into not being that sensitive like i no its ok to cry when someone dies but i really dont wantt to cry when i am getting cursed out and ITS EMBARING GIVE ME BEST ADVISE PLEASEEE